There's Nothing Wrong With Us

 There’s Nothing Wrong With Us

“When a flower doesn’t bloom, you fix the environment in which it grows, not the flower”.

“There’s nothing wrong with her, we just need to get her away from that bad environment!” Have you heard of this ‘expression’ before?

We always want the best for our children, and we want to keep them safe by keeping him / her away from bad things.

What about us?

Sometimes we may find ourselves in a ‘bad’ environment which may be causing us harm, either mentally or even physically, and we need to ‘change’ the environment.

There’s nothing wrong with us and we need to keep it that way, by making sure that the ‘environment’ doesn’t damage us.

We need and want to be in a situation where we can grow as a person, and develop our skills in life.

LIVE AND LOVE LIFE!

It Is Our Privilege

 It Is Our Privilege

“Our parents were patient when we were young, now it’s our time to be patient during their old age”.

Have you ever had the privilege of caring for your mother and / or father?

Possibly one or both became ill and needed more care than usual, because they just couldn’t care for themselves anymore.

This is a change in routine and in our mindset.

Being Determined to look after our parents (when the time comes) helps us to ‘know what to do’ when they really do need our help.

Think about all of the things they did for us — making sure that we were well-fed, clean and warm, sitting up with us when we were ill, praising our successes — without them, we wouldn’t be here!

Yes, it is a real Privilege and one which can and does give us good memories to look back on.

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What Are you thinking About?

 What are You Thinking About?

“If you don’t leave your past in the past, it will destroy your future. Live for what today has to offer, not what yesterday has taken away”.

This is a very true saying.

It is hard, when we have come out of a difficult situation, to not let ‘it’ ruin (or indeed run) our lives.

It is at this time that we need to open our ‘eyes’ to the good that is out there, surrounding us, and to accept it and embrace it.

The past is limited because it has gone, never to come back, but the future is full of possibilities to improve our minds and our lives.

The “Today” is full of choices and we need to make the choice that will Improve and Strengthen our minds and our lives. 

Remember, it all starts with how we think and what we “allow” ourselves to think about.

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Good, Happy And Positive

 Good, Happy And Positive

“The secret of change is to focus all of your energy, not on fighting the old, but on building the new”.

Putting all of our energy into the Positive leaves no room at all for the negative.

If we want a much Happier life, it is up to us to put the right energy into changing our life.

Don’t waste that energy by fighting something in your past, especially mentally. Let go of the past to clear your mind for the Positive future you really want and deserve.

The more we fill our minds and lives with Good, Happier and Positive ‘realities’, the more our lives will move towards that more Stable future.

In this way, we will not be allowing the negative to come into our lives, but will be building towards a Strong future.

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"Believe"

 “Believe”

“Believe in yourself and you will be unstoppable”

The word “Believe” means: “to accept that (something) is true or to hold (something) as an opinion”.

In other words => never doubt yourself!

We have little trouble believing other people, so why do we not believe in ourselves?

Only ‘we’ got ourselves this far in life, so we should Trust ourselves, and have Faith that we will go further in our lives.

In this way, we will be unstoppable.

By not letting anyone put us down, or allowing them to make us doubt our own abilities, we will become Stronger in ourselves and our own abilities.

And then no one will be able to stop us.

LIVE AND LOVE LIFE!

Let's Appreciate That Sun

 Let’s Appreciate That Sun

“Be someone’s sunshine when their skies are grey”

A good way to cheer yourself up is to go and cheer someone else up.

We appreciate it when a friend or loved one tries to help us when we are feeling low, so why not try to ‘give back’ some of that cheerfulness.

This is also good for our mental health too, because we feel ‘good’ when we help others.

This also takes our minds off of our own troubles, putting our thoughts onto a more Positive level — which is always Good.

We all appreciate the sun coming out after a dark storm, so let’s be that ‘sun’ when we know someone is or see someone sad.

This could apply to the person we got on the same bus or train with, a gentle smile and: “Hello” can make all the difference to that person’s day.

LIVE AND LOVE LIFE!

We Should Respect This

 We Should Respect This

“You have to do what is right for you. No one walks in your shoes”.

We are all different!

Every single one of us has our own reasons for living in a particular way.

And we should Respect this!

We all have our own experiences in life which determine how and why we do a certain thing or live in a certain way.

If it's not harming anyone, why should we question it?

Only we know why, only we can understand, and (sometimes) only we will ever know.

All of this shows that we are all individuals, with our own personalities and our own ways.

Again, we should Respect this!

We all live on this Earth and we want to live in Peace, so let’s do this in a Respectful way.

And the Earth is a beautiful planet just like you are a beautiful person.

LIVE AND LOVE LIFE!